Comments on: What To Do When You Are Hurt http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm Truth from Life Church St Louis Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:03:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: sindhu http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1858 sindhu Thu, 06 Oct 2011 12:54:56 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1858 Pastor.. im a hindu girl.. i fallen in love witha a guy since 4 years.. he really take care me but sometime he hurts me... if he done anything wrong he tried to close his topic.. but if i did that he talks me so badly until i got commited suicide ... i cannot take it .. i didn't ask his money wealth.. i just ask him be polite and lovely with me.. i take care him so much but when fight he tells that i didn't take care him well.. he never wants to know what my heart fells... im really depressed .. what wrong i did to him? Pastor.. im a hindu girl.. i fallen in love witha a guy since 4 years.. he really take care me but sometime he hurts me… if he done anything wrong he tried to close his topic.. but if i did that he talks me so badly until i got commited suicide … i cannot take it .. i didn’t ask his money wealth.. i just ask him be polite and lovely with me.. i take care him so much but when fight he tells that i didn’t take care him well.. he never wants to know what my heart fells… im really depressed .. what wrong i did to him?

]]> By: faye http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1846 faye Mon, 05 Sep 2011 02:29:10 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1846 Pastor Dan, I was abused as a young girl by my mother and stepfather My mother passed away a couple of years ago and my step father is not in the best of health. I never told my mother how I really felt about her and the abuse that I suffered at her hands. When she became sick I wanted to tell her then but she was too sick to know what I was talking about so I just kept it to myself. I don't even want to face this man how can I betin to forgive him for what he put me through as a young girl? Pastor Dan,

I was abused as a young girl by my mother and stepfather My mother passed away a couple of years ago and my step father is not in the best of health. I never told my mother how I really felt about her and the abuse that I suffered at her hands. When she became sick I wanted to tell her then but she was too sick to know what I was talking about so I just kept it to myself. I don’t even want to face this man how can I betin to forgive him for what he put me through as a young girl?

]]> By: Dale http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1829 Dale Sat, 16 Jul 2011 23:58:58 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1829 PASTOR DAN I APPRECIATED YOU SERMON ON TELLING THE TRUTH AS BECAUSE OF SOME ADDICTIONS I HAVE HAD IN THE PAST NOT TELLING THE TRUTH HAS FOLLOWED ME. I HAVE GIVEN UP DRINKING AND PORN AND COMPUTER NOW IM TRYING TO QUIT SMOKING AND THAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN LYING ABOUT TO A WONDERFUL WOMAN CAUSE I WAS AFRAID OF HER RESPONSE. WE SINCE HAVE BROKEN UP AND I UNDERSTAND HER REASON TOTALLY. COULD YOU PRAY THAT GOD HEALS ME I PRAYED YOUR PRAY YOU HAVE ON HERE GOD BLESS YOU I KNOW GOD LEAD ME TO YOUR SITE AGAIN BLESS YOU PASTOR DAN I APPRECIATED YOU SERMON ON TELLING THE TRUTH AS BECAUSE OF SOME ADDICTIONS I HAVE HAD IN THE PAST NOT TELLING THE TRUTH HAS FOLLOWED ME. I HAVE GIVEN UP DRINKING AND PORN AND COMPUTER NOW IM TRYING TO QUIT SMOKING AND THAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN LYING ABOUT TO A WONDERFUL WOMAN CAUSE I WAS AFRAID OF HER RESPONSE. WE SINCE HAVE BROKEN UP AND I UNDERSTAND HER REASON TOTALLY. COULD YOU PRAY THAT GOD HEALS ME I PRAYED YOUR PRAY YOU HAVE ON HERE GOD BLESS YOU I KNOW GOD LEAD ME TO YOUR SITE AGAIN BLESS YOU

]]> By: Arje http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1825 Arje Sat, 09 Jul 2011 14:16:00 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1825 Hi Pastor, I just want to ask some advices, I am in a middle of depression. Sad, hurt, and feeling alone. when im working i assure that i make everything nicely, talking to people, going to the office happy, im also a bubbly and jolly person. All of my oficemates knows me as a very happy person but lately I fall in love with my boss and I have a very close friend of mine that I usually share all my problems, my secret about what i feel with our boss, my life of ups and downs and suddenly my other friends noticed that this lady and my boss has something in relation. I just cant imagine that my friend kept on texting my boss and some of my friends discovered that they aleady have a secret relationship. I started to change my way of approaching them, i became sad and wanted to be alone. I also didnt notice that some of my friends who knows me as a very happy person started to keep on asking me why I've changed, what is my problem. I am just worried that what if one morning when I wake up and go to work and ask for my friends but they all gone. what im gonna do? Hi Pastor,

I just want to ask some advices,

I am in a middle of depression. Sad, hurt, and feeling alone. when im working i assure that i make everything nicely, talking to people, going to the office happy, im also a bubbly and jolly person. All of my oficemates knows me as a very happy person but lately I fall in love with my boss and I have a very close friend of mine that I usually share all my problems, my secret about what i feel with our boss, my life of ups and downs and suddenly my other friends noticed that this lady and my boss has something in relation. I just cant imagine that my friend kept on texting my boss and some of my friends discovered that they aleady have a secret relationship. I started to change my way of approaching them, i became sad and wanted to be alone. I also didnt notice that some of my friends who knows me as a very happy person started to keep on asking me why I’ve changed, what is my problem. I am just worried that what if one morning when I wake up and go to work and ask for my friends but they all gone. what im gonna do?

]]> By: Anon http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1817 Anon Mon, 13 Jun 2011 07:58:35 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1817 hey seek first the kingdom of God and he will make your paths straight, Bible... God Bless man,,, you can do it, I mean God will do it for your, just put your faith in him in everything, knowing, you are his, I know its hard, but God can work it out for you... lil by lil... hey seek first the kingdom of God and he will make your paths straight, Bible… God Bless man,,, you can do it, I mean God will do it for your, just put your faith in him in everything, knowing, you are his, I know its hard, but God can work it out for you… lil by lil…

]]> By: Anon http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1806 Anon Sat, 14 May 2011 08:03:40 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1806 Hello, I dont know where you are right now, or if things have got better, but you got to start making atermatums to this man, you seem to be a nice person and you seem to be doing your part, and if or when he dosent listen to your atermatums... than you have to leave....because it seems like he is not willing to do his half... and that is not what you want, you will get used and hurt more... May God give you strenth and peace of mind... Hello, I dont know where you are right now, or if things have got better, but you got to start making atermatums to this man, you seem to be a nice person and you seem to be doing your part, and if or when he dosent listen to your atermatums… than you have to leave….because it seems like he is not willing to do his half… and that is not what you want, you will get used and hurt more…
May God give you strenth and peace of mind…

]]> By: Anon http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1801 Anon Tue, 26 Apr 2011 07:17:29 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1801 Hello Mr Pastor, My story is one of sadness and confusion and living in hope.. its a long story, but I will try and make it short... I come from a broken family, my mum has been married 4 times now.. well I have suffered quite a lot of rejection in my life, so I left my country which is New Zealand and traveled to Central America.. I now have a gal that I call my wife and her daughter who I call my daughter and a son with her.... I have gone through so much with her, and I havent seen her for one year because I have no money to travel back to see her, and every week I send around 450 dollers to her, which is nearly all my pay.... I do not have much of a life here, I have a full time Job have no car not even my own bed... and at work most times I do not eat any thing because of my situation... I am not only paying for her and our kids but also her family because they are poor and need my help as no body else can help them in (Honduras) I have been trying to get all our imigration papers ready, but that also is a very hard task, it has been so dificult in every corner of my fight... I beleive in Jesus and have now started going to church but non of them really understand how hard it is.... it is very hard Sir.... I can see the way things are heading I will not be seeing them for another year because of money.... I do not smoke I do not drink I send most of my money overseas to them as they need it... I wonder to my self what is Gods plan in all of this because at times it eats me up... Thank you for listening... Hello Mr Pastor, My story is one of sadness and confusion and living in hope.. its a long story, but I will try and make it short… I come from a broken family, my mum has been married 4 times now.. well I have suffered quite a lot of rejection in my life, so I left my country which is New Zealand and traveled to Central America.. I now have a gal that I call my wife and her daughter who I call my daughter and a son with her…. I have gone through so much with her, and I havent seen her for one year because I have no money to travel back to see her, and every week I send around 450 dollers to her, which is nearly all my pay…. I do not have much of a life here, I have a full time Job have no car not even my own bed… and at work most times I do not eat any thing because of my situation… I am not only paying for her and our kids but also her family because they are poor and need my help as no body else can help them in (Honduras) I have been trying to get all our imigration papers ready, but that also is a very hard task, it has been so dificult in every corner of my fight… I beleive in Jesus and have now started going to church but non of them really understand how hard it is…. it is very hard Sir…. I can see the way things are heading I will not be seeing them for another year because of money…. I do not smoke I do not drink I send most of my money overseas to them as they need it… I wonder to my self what is Gods plan in all of this because at times it eats me up…
Thank you for listening…

]]> By: Selina http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1800 Selina Fri, 22 Apr 2011 10:08:21 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1800 Hi pastor Dan I need helping recovering I left a church cause the pastor did not do his job his daughter and her friend said u don't belong at this church also been gossiped about been discourage hurt. I tried to ask for help he turned me away but after all this he wants me to go back but that church is to bitter and cold there is nothing positive about most of the people are not Christ like. The question is how do I deal with the former pastor and his members worst of all the gossip? That affected me agreat deal thanks god bless Hi pastor Dan I need helping recovering I left a church cause the pastor did not do his job his daughter and her friend said u don’t belong at this church also been gossiped about been discourage hurt. I tried to ask for help he turned me away but after all this he wants me to go back but that church is to bitter and cold there is nothing positive about most of the people are not Christ like. The question is how do I deal with the former pastor and his members worst of all the gossip? That affected me agreat deal thanks god bless

]]> By: Ashima http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1739 Ashima Thu, 17 Feb 2011 06:34:48 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1739 Hi I am a gal in my mid 20s and till now I have faced a hell lot of problems due to people who I am very close to. They hurt me to an extent that I completely broke down, Yet I get up for next round of pain with lot of anger and pain in my heart. I always try a lot to forgive them but I cant to do that.I remember the pain they have given me By the passing time this pain and anger has increased to huge amount that I wish to kill myself. But I am scared to do that, thinking what my parents will have to face after that I have started distrusting God as well. This time I have been hurt again but I have been trying a lot to come out of it but nothing is happening. My continous sufferings had vanished my confidence and determination I feel like completely ruined Hi
I am a gal in my mid 20s and till now I have faced a hell lot of problems due to people who I am very close to.
They hurt me to an extent that I completely broke down, Yet I get up for next round of pain with lot of anger and pain in my heart.
I always try a lot to forgive them but I cant to do that.I remember the pain they have given me
By the passing time this pain and anger has increased to huge amount that I wish to kill myself.
But I am scared to do that, thinking what my parents will have to face after that
I have started distrusting God as well.

This time I have been hurt again but I have been trying a lot to come out of it but nothing is happening.
My continous sufferings had vanished my confidence and determination
I feel like completely ruined

]]> By: LaRonica http://www.pastordanwalker.org/2004/06/what-to-do-when-you-are-hurt.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1131 LaRonica Tue, 21 Dec 2010 02:55:30 +0000 http://192.168.1.105/wordpress/?p=177#comment-1131 Dear Pastor Dan, I don't even know how to come to you with this but I really need you to pray for me. I'm going to start from the beginning it starts about 12 years ago. There's this guy that I've been seeing in and out of relationships with a man who is now my husband. Well maybe I can say that I choose the wrong kind of men. Well this one guy that I really love don't love me back because his actions tells. I'm also a married woman. My husband is in prison for life. I know It's no excuse but I'm in love with the other man. I really think that I shouldn't married my husband because I wasn't really in love with him i just didn't want to be alone. The other guy he went into a relationship while talking to me behind my back which left me devistated! I even accepted him back months later because I was still lonely! Then my husband came back around i cut the guy who I'm in love with off got married. Now my husband is serving sentence me and other are back in forth in and out again it's like a roller coaster it makes me so sick to where I can't even eat. What is it Pastor Dan? Now the guy has left again living with another woman and acts as if I dont exist! I feel like he loves me but I something else say not true. Please say a prayers for me real soon cause Im falling apart! I really hurting! I need a answer and prayers! Why do he come into my life and act as if he loves me tell lies and then leave without a word. I seen him today and he didn't see me. That hurt so bad also today is my birthday and he didn't even wish me a happy birthday. Does he hate me? Please help me! Dear Pastor Dan,
I don’t even know how to come to you with this but I really need you to pray for me. I’m going to start from the beginning it starts about 12 years ago. There’s this guy that I’ve been seeing in and out of relationships with a man who is now my husband. Well maybe I can say that I choose the wrong kind of men. Well this one guy that I really love don’t love me back because his actions tells. I’m also a married woman. My husband is in prison for life. I know It’s no excuse but I’m in love with the other man. I really think that I shouldn’t married my husband because I wasn’t really in love with him i just didn’t want to be alone. The other guy he went into a relationship while talking to me behind my back which left me devistated! I even accepted him back months later because I was still lonely! Then my husband came back around i cut the guy who I’m in love with off got married. Now my husband is serving sentence me and other are back in forth in and out again it’s like a roller coaster it makes me so sick to where I can’t even eat. What is it Pastor Dan? Now the guy has left again living with another woman and acts as if I dont exist! I feel like he loves me but I something else say not true. Please say a prayers for me real soon cause Im falling apart! I really hurting! I need a answer and prayers! Why do he come into my life and act as if he loves me tell lies and then leave without a word. I seen him today and he didn’t see me. That hurt so bad also today is my birthday and he didn’t even wish me a happy birthday. Does he hate me? Please help me!

]]>